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Meeting Others
Dear Reader,
Have you ever thought about how you would meet others of like mind?
It is far easier than you might realize as long as you take things slowly, with safety and be and feel comfortable in your approach. For me I find that by joining e-lists and posting on message boards and forums as well as talking others to be of great assistance. Helping, assisting, supporting and learning from others is a good way as well. Something as simple as talking on messenger or via email is a great springboard and you get to know the other persons first. Creating a dialogue and let things go slow and take its course. If you get along and feel comfortable, then a phone call and perhaps a meeting in a mutual place such as a cafe would is useful. Then you can expand from there. I myself prefer small meetings of say 5- 6 people. This enables you to be able to talk to each other rather than spreading yourself too thin. Listening to what others say in really important and I always learning something from this. Smiling and being interested in others is great as well. The important thing here is to not rush into things and take things slow and with caution, just in case I take a long time to trust people and I talk and talk with them for a while before I will meet them. Treating others with respect and courtesy is important as well. That is all I have to say for now dear reader, just my very brief thoughts
Russell Kaye
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